1. Recognize the specific ways you might be showing selfishness in your friendship. Ask yourself if you are so caught up in your personal needs and desires that you can barely see your own selfish behaviors. Then, ask yourself why you’re being selfish. Consider what you might miss, in the relationship, by not giving of yourself. 2. Focus on your friend’s well being rather than what you aren’t getting out of the relationship. When the emphasis in your mind is on creating happiness for your friend rather than for yourself, you shift... 

I disagree with the saying that a man & woman cannot be good friends. Friendship is entirely based on compatibility and mutual understanding. This is plain nonsense that a person cannot be good friends with those from the opposite sex. I totally believe that men and women can be good friends though it often depends on individuals. However, there are few things that guy should be aware about their female friends. For example, gals are soft in nature which means minor things can have an emotional effect on them and they want more security from their guy... 

Peter and Tina are sitting in the park doing nothing, but just gazing into the sky, while all their friends are having fun with their beloved half. Tina: I’m so bored. Just wish I have a boyfriend now to spend time with. Peter: I guess we’re the only leftovers. We’re the only person who isn’t with a date now. (both sigh n silence for a while) Tina: I think I have a good idea. Lets play a game. Peter: Eh? What game? Tina: Eem…It’s quite simple. You be my boyfriend for 10 days and I’ll be your girlfriend for 10 days.... 

Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust. Love is when you feel like you are the only two around. Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care. Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart. Friendship is being close even when you are far apart. Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart when they are not near. Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best. Love is when you bring them the very best. Friendship occupies your mind. Love occupies your soul. Friendship is knowing... 

I have heard: Two friends were talking with each other about the dream they had last night. One man said, “Boy, what a beautiful dream …such big fish! In my whole life I have not been able to catch so many big fish. It was such a joy …the whole night, I was going in and in, inside the lake, and finding bigger and bigger fish.” The other said, “This is nothing. You cannot even conceive what happened last night in my dream.” His friend said, “What happened?” And the man said, “I am thinking if I should say...